Bob Mahr

I have listened to the Martina McBride song, Love’s the Only House, for over 20 years. I bought the CD back in 2020 and added the song to my Spotify playlist several years ago. I knew the lyrics, but it was only recently that I felt their impact. The full line from the song is […]

Often conflict and discomfort are required for success. Getting through the pain of starting an exercise program, developing a new skill, breaking an old habit, even having a tough conversation to clear the air. Too many of us become uneasy and even agitated when we encounter conflict or disagreement. Conflict is inevitable and unavoidable. If

I recently talked with my college position coach for the first time in a long time. During the conversation I thanked him for how he played a part in my development. He commented that he didn’t do anything special and that I came from good parents with great genes. I agreed with him that I

Building friendships entails investing time and effort into establishing authentic connections. These genuine relationships are rooted in trust, empathy, and shared experiences. By nurturing these bonds, we cultivate a network of people who genuinely care about each other’s well-being and success. It’s a give-and-take dynamic which fosters a sense of belonging and strengthens our ability

The game knows. It just somehow knows. There is something out there much bigger than us that grasps it all. Consequently, we don’t get what we want, but we do get what the game feels we deserve. The game is not concerned about scoreboards and standings, but about the lessons and growth along the way.

I previously detailed a Led Zepplin song, Stairway to Heaven, as a tribute to my cousin who passed away too early at the young age of 45. From what I learned, he preferred their song, Ramble On. It is one of Led Zeppelin’s most enduring songs. Once again, upon reflection, I see the depth to

A Sales quip I first heard over 30 years ago came from the President of my employer, a man of great experience and knowledge – therefore wisdom: “a presentation without a demonstration is just a conversation.” He emphasized doing demonstrations to show our products outperforming the competition. Statics show that demonstrations translate into higher conversion,

When I was developing content in my role as a High School Football and Character Coach, I sketched out a bunch of lessons around the “Be A …, Not A …” concept. I began sharing them in this blog in groups of 4-6 concepts per blog and this is my sixth edition. To see Parts

Context is the circumstance, environment, or background that form the setting for an event, statement, or idea. It sets the terms of understanding and assessment. Context is critical, because it informs us about the importance of something, what assumptions to draw (or not), and it puts meaning into the situation. Nothing exists, and can be

Unity is a decision, as is disunity. To be divided is a choice. Disagreement is acceptable, it is part of tolerance and in fact needed for growth. A lack of agreement among people happens. Disunity goes beyond disagreement. It is created by splits, breaches, even conflict between people. Division thwarts growth. Disunity is not acceptable.